Stardew Valley 1.7: A Wishlist for the Over 40s

Recently, ConcernedApe announced that a Stardew Valley 1.7 update is on the way, and that it will include more character and social content, plus two new marriage candidates, which is HUGE!

Stardew Valley has become one of the most played games by people in their 30s, 40s and beyond, and we now know that the average gamer is 41 years old. Many of us are balancing work, families, responsibilities, and the occasional back twinge from sitting too long at a desk.

So, if we’re expanding the social side of Pelican Town, what would a 1.7 update look like if it acknowledged the growing number of cosy gamers over 40?


1. Older Romanceable NPCs in Stardew Valley 1.7

I love you, Marnie.

Let’s just say it plainly: some of us (me) would happily romance Marnie in Stardew Valley 1.7.

Or Gus, the Wizard, Sandy, Pam, Marlon… LINUS!!!!

The current romance pool skews noticeably younger. When I play Stardew, it can feel slightly creepy building a romantic relationship with someone who reads as fresh out of sixth form.

With 1.7 already confirmed to include two new marriage candidates, this feels like the perfect moment to broaden the age range a little.

Pelican Town is full of complex, interesting adults with backstories, regrets, resilience and humour. A 1.7 update that opened up romance paths with older NPCs would immediately feel more aligned with many players’ realities.

We’re all out here saving Shane… can’t we save Pam too?!

UPDATE: It has been confirmed that the two new romanceable NPCs in Stardew Valley’s 1.7 update will be CLINT and SANDY – both older NPCs!


2. The Option to Play as an Older Farmer in 1.7

Right now, your farmer is clearly coded as young. NPCs call you “kid”. You’re treated like someone just starting out in life.

What if, when starting out Stardew Valley, you could choose your age range? And dialogue adjusted to reflect that.

  • Maybe you left a corporate career?
  • Maybe you just got a divorce?
  • Maybe you’re recovering from burnout?
  • Maybe you inherited the farm after decades in another life?

A couple shifts in dialogue for 1.7 would make the roleplay feel completely different for us cosy gamers over 40.


3. More Body Diversity and Customisation

Image: Mobility Valley

A Stardew Valley 1.7 update could introduce:

  • Different body shapes
  • Allow the farmer to use mobility aids, including wheelchairs, crutches, canes, rollators, walkers, and scooters
  • Tattoos!!! Please tattoos
  • Age markers if players want them

Some of us (again, me) want a farmer with laugh lines and a tramp stamp from years gone by.


4. Hobbies That Aren’t Work for Stardew Valley 1.7

caroline's private sunroom???? : r/StardewValley
Image: u/moonush on Reddit

Farming is a grind. Mining is terrifying. Fishing is… relaxing?

Now, I know there are social spaces already, like the movie theatre, the arcade machines in the saloon, and the spa up in the mountains.

But imagine if if Stardew Valley 1.7 your farmer could:

  • Join a book club
  • Paint landscapes
  • Brew tea as a ritual rather than a product
  • Visit a proper coffee shop space just to sit and chat
  • Play music with Sam and Abigail

At 40+, many of us are actively unlearning the idea that every activity has to be productive. It would be wonderful to see that reflected more in Pelican Town.


5. Co-Parenting & Blended Families

How to Have and Remove Children in Stardew Valley - Siliconera

The current family model in Stardew is fairly simple and nuclear.

What if Stardew Valley 1.7 allowed:

  • Step-children storylines
  • Adult children visiting
  • Grandparent dynamics
  • Choosing to remain childfree without it feeling like you’ve not explored the whole game

6. Accessibility & Low-Energy Options

Lonely Linus: Poverty in Stardew Valley's Pelican Town

A few optional settings introduced into Stardew Valley 1.7 could make a big difference:

  • Adjustable day length
  • Larger UI scaling
  • A toggle for more relaxed farming days, like not watering plants

Linus already models a slower rhythm of life that the over 40s can really vibe with. Giving players more flexibility to embrace that pace would make the experience feel even more cosy in 1.7.


7. More Meaningful Friendship with Older NPCs

Gus Stardew Valley: Guide to Pelican Town's Friendliest Chef
Why, Gus, why?

Some of the most interesting characters in Pelican Town are underdeveloped:

  • Marnie’s complicated love life with Mayor Lewis.
  • Pam’s struggle with alcohol and stability.
  • Gus holding the community together.
  • Linus’s decision to live apart from the town.
  • Marlon’s mysterious past.
  • Gil?
  • The Wizard’s lore.

Linus’s backstory is one of the most intriguing in the game, though we barely scratch the surface. Expanding arcs like his in Stardew’s 1.7 update, and giving other older NPCs equally nuanced development, would also add so much emotional depth.


8. Seasonal Community Retreats

Stardew Valley Diary: Winter
The night market is made for the over-40s.

Festivals are fun. But what about slower events that are similar to the night market for Stardew Valley’s 1.7 update?

Maybe we could have things like:

  • A harvest supper where everyone shares stories, including the farmer
  • A winter reading evening hosted by Penny
  • A summer jazz night with Gus
  • A craft fair in the town square
  • A foraging retreat led by Linus

Just cute community stuff. Also, could we skip the easter egg hunt and do something else?


Stardew Valley 1.7: Farming with Life Experience

We don’t want to turn Stardew into a midlife simulator at all, and I already love the game just as it is (thank you, Eric!)

I just want to nod to the fact that cosy gaming has grown up with us.

I know there are mods for some of these things. I’ve never used them. But I’d love to see options like this in the base game, so that everyone, on every platform, gets to experience them.

With 1.7 bringing more social content and new marriage candidates, it already sounds like an exciting update. Pelican Town already feels like home to me, but wouldn’t it be lovely to arrive there with a bit more life behind me?

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